Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Shelter Sightings


I am only one, but still I am one. I cannot do everything, but still I can do something; and because I cannot do everything, I will not refuse to do something I can do. ~Edward Everett Hale 



I've been pondering the above words of Hale.  Deep inside of all of us is the desire to do something large, something that would change someone's life.  Most of us don't have the resources to build a home for a homeless family, to save a life by donating a kidney, or to sponsor a family adopting a  child from overseas.  Somehow we feel like our gift is rated by the largeness--or smallness--of its size.


E. E. Hale seemed to think otherwise. I am only one, but still I am one. I cannot do everything, but still I can do something; and because I cannot do everything, I will not refuse to do something I can do.  In my journeys around the web I've found so many kindred spirits who are intent  on doing their "something."  It warms my heart every time I find God's loving people shelter those in their pathway. 


Precious people like Kathyrn at Expectant Hearts.  Several years ago, Kathryn's son, Seth, was born with half a heart and went to Heaven when he was six and a half months old.  Losing a child is heartbreaking--it stays with you forever.  But what was Kathyrn and her husband, Leland, doing over Thanksgiving?  Stocking the Kleenex in the PICU at the hospital who cared for Seth.  Why?  In Kathyrn's words,
"Personally, any family in PICU over Thanksgiving deserves soft Kleenex, in my opinion."  They were sheltering other grieving parents though their own grief is still raw.
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Chrissy is another one offering shelter.  When Chrissy was depressed, her pastor's wife gave her some advice (the same advice my Mother gives to me), "Call someone in the church and see how they are doing."  I don't want to spoil Chrissy's story, so you'll have to read it over at Enriched Living.  She's issuing a challenge for us to contact one person a day for the month of January and I hope some of my readers will take her challenge.
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And then I met the Frans Clan. Momma Frans is a youth pastor's wife with  two young children.  She says, "I love being a youth pastor's wife and the opportunities I'm given to love on teenagers with the love of Jesus."  Besides the teenagers, one of the ways this family chooses to shelter is through Homeless Bags.  Momma Frans explained:

The first time we did it, we took gallon bags and filled them with things like peanut butter crackers, a pair of socks, granola bars, a bottle of water, a bar of soap, toothbrush, travel size toothpaste, etc. The ones my kids put together the other day were 2 gallon bags, and they added a hand sanitizer and a warm hat and gloves since it's cold outside.  We keep them in our car so we have them on hand when we see a homeless person.  We have some areas of town where they stand on the corner with their signs, so we usually hit those spots.

Don't these ideas touch your heart?  They did mine and I'm hoping you will try these or let them spark an idea of your own.  I will leave you with the story of a sweet shelter that touched someone dear to me.



My  niece (and namesake), Pam, is an amazing young woman.  She has three beautiful daughters, the youngest with special needs.  Pam homeschools her oldest and keeps up with all Maddy's therapists, sings in the church choir and so much more.  She's bubbly, joyful and loves being a Mama.  But this week, sweet Maddy was sick.  Actually all three girls had been sick off and on for three weeks and Maddy was going to have to see a doctor.  Pam's post on facebook immediately brought a response from Diana: So sorry....how may we help you? Perhaps some warm muffins or a loaf of cottage cheese bread? We will be out your way this evening.  Later that evening I read, I feel guilty and oh so happy that Diana brought us homemade cottage cheese bread and chocolate cake squares! 

I don't know why I am always surprised when I find God's people sheltering others.  I thought my readers would be encouraged by others around the world who are reaching out their sheltering branches --  Others saying, I am only one, but still I am one. I cannot do everything, but still I can do something; and because I cannot do everything, I will not refuse to do something I can do. 

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 Bread Maker Cottage Cheese Dill Bread
Make a loaf to take to someone who's a bit under the weather.
2/3 cup warm water 
2/3 cup cottage cheese
2 tablespoons margarine
3 cups bread flour
1 1/2 tablespoon honey
1 tablespoon dry milk powder
1 tablespoon dried minced onion
1 tablespoon dill seed
1 teaspoon salt
1 1/2 tablespoons active dry yeast

Measure ingredients into the machine in the order suggested by the manufacturer. 
Use the dough setting.  After the first rising, take out of machine and put it in a bread pan.
Allow to rise again, then bake at 350 degrees for 35 minutes.
(If you prefer, it's fine to bake the loaf in your machine.)

This post is linked to A Few of My Favorite Things.

26 comments:

Debra said...

This post touched my heart in a very special way.

I've often felt so burdened for those who are homeless and forgotten. It's not occurred to me that we can provide "shelter" in a multitude of small ways.

Blessings,
Debra

Kathryn @ Expectant Hearts said...

Pam, thank you so much for your kind email/comment. And your mention here. I love that quote.. It IS hard sometime to allow our "one smalll thing" to be enough. (one little correction, Seth was 6 1/2 MONTHS old.).. His 3rd birhtday woould be thi sspring, I'm doing our 2nd annual supply drive for the PICU where he spent almost half of his life.. Another small thing.
Blessiings to you.

Bobbe Brooks-Fischle said...

Pam,
Thanks so much for stopping by my blog and thereby introducing me to yours. What a wonderful refreshing shelter for wayfarers He may lead your way! (And I've wanted to add recipes. LUV the way you've incorporated them.)
Rich blessings, Bobbe

Esther Asbury said...

I know someone else who recently went the extra mile with a "small" act of sheltering! The author of this blog included an American Girl Party book (for my daughter) in my prize box. It was a perfectly timed surprise for a gloomy January day! Thanks again Pam - and thanks for sharing these inspirational stories about Sheltering. Can't tell you how many times someone has made my day brighter with their "little" acts of kindness -- truly "we can all do something!"

Kim M. said...

You have me making some plans. Thank you so much!

Denise said...

Always nice to meet a sister in the Lord.I love the name of your blog site.He will always be my shelter.Thank you for visiting me-Denise

Elizabethd said...

What an inspiring and touching post. I'm so glad I came over, and thank you for visiting me also.

Anonymous said...

Thanks for sharing my story and challenge. I really enjoyed reading about the others.

Thanks so much.

Lynda R Young as Elle Cardy said...

God works through us in so many wonderful, unexpected ways.
I'm going to have to try that Cottage Cheese and Dill Bread. It sounds yum.

Amy said...

wow, what a great post! i love that quote and these are all fabulous ways to bless others. thanks so much for sharing our story. hopefully it will be picked up by others and the act of blessing will be passed on.

Beth in NC said...

Thank you for visiting me and for sharing this post. It is really spurring me to bless others.

God bless you!
Beth

BECKY said...

Truly inspirational! I have often thought of doing the bags for the homeless...maybe now I'll actually follow through!! Do they include a Bible tract in with their bags, too? Thank you for sharing!
Blessings,
Becky

Kim Turnage said...

Thank you for sharing your shelter sightings! I love the homeless bags idea, and I think my kids will too!

Sandra said...

What a great post. Most of the time I feel like I'm just not doing enough, but like you said, I don't have the resources to do bigger things. BUT, if God wanted me to do those bigger things, then he'd give me the resources. So I have to trust that I'm doing all he wants me to, if my heart is submitted to him and I'm listening to his voice.

Janettessage.blogspot.com said...

Awesome post...I think this is part of the dream God has for all of us and one we all can enter into. This encourages me as I have been stepping out and mentoring a student that is high risk, and watching for opportunities to give to all my single/divorce mothers in my neighborhood...it takes so little and we gain so much as we reach out...yes, want to get rid of depression and glazing at your navel...go find a place to give out.
Thanks so much for this wonderful post!!

Jeanette Levellie said...

I love the story of the Kleenex the couple provided. God love 'em. I'm sure it helped them heal faster.

Thanks for sharing your sightings,
Jen

Jana Endris said...

I loved this post! I will be looking for ways to shelter others. Thanks for stopping by my blog so I could find yours.
Blessings,
Jana

Eggs In My Pocket said...

Your words in your post are so true and just touched my heart. Enjoyed visiting. blessings,Kathleen

Michelle said...

Our Sunday School helps in feeding the homeless.
I always come away so blessed.
Thank you for posting this.

Thanks for stopping by my blog.
I like your blog and will be visiting you.

KimMalk said...

Hi Pamela, Leave it to a sweet person to find all of these inspiring stories. Blessings, Kim

Sandra said...

It is hard to be selfish when you are acting in a selfless manner. Wonderful stories and inspiration on sheltering others!

Canadagirl said...

What a beautiful and thought provoking post. Yes, we are one but we can make a difference with one small thing at a time to a person that the Lord has brought into our lives. Thanks for sharing.

Blessings in Him<><
-Mary

Oh Mandie said...

What a lovely and encourging post! Sometimes I struggle with being absolutely selfless like that, your post is so inspiring.

And boy oh boy do I love anything and everything with dill in it, that bread sounds yummy!

Dawning Inspiration said...

Wonderful thoughts and ideas...
And, I copied the receipe down! Sounds great!

Rebecca said...

Re. the recipe...You don't let the dough rise first before putting into the breadmaker, do you? I got a little confused about the instructions (not the ingredients...it sounds wonderful).

Anonymous said...

What a great blog you have! It's so nice to "meet' you here.... thanks so much for linking to Saturday Swap! I almost bought a bread maker at Costco but changed my mind at the last minute. Recently I've seen some great recipes to use with a bread maker and think it may be time to head back and grab one. :-) I hope you have a wonderful weekend!!!