Monday, February 14, 2011

Of Kentucky Wrap and Such


It isn't the size of the gift that matters, but the size of the heart that gives it.  ~Eileen Elias Freeman



I loved my Grandma Cessna.  I loved the smell of her VO2 hairspray. I loved the way she rolled her snow white hair at the bottom of her neck and pinned her hat on with a long hat pin.  I loved her bread and butter pickles she always served when she knew I was coming.  I loved all the crafts we made together -- like crochet hanger covers and orange clove pomanders.  I loved eating her stewed elderberries from pink-handled fiesta wear bowls.

One day Grandma brought me a present -- in a brown paper sack!  In my child's eyes I didn't think a present was  much of a present unless it was wrapped and festively topped with ribbons.  "Oh," my grandma said, "This is a special gift -- it's Kentucky wrapped."  After Grandma explained it, I was happy.  And forever after in my family, when we hand a gift to  a member of our family, if it's in a bag we say, "Excuse the Kentucky wrap."

Last evening I was unable to attend evening worship services.  My husband came in the door with an arm full of surprises (you'll get to see some in posts to come).  When RB handed me a Kentucky-wrapped gift I smiled.  Renee almost didn't send it since I wasn't there for her to explain the wrapping (she didn't know my grandma explained it years ago.)  I was so delighted when I pulled my chalk board tea server out of the bag.  Nobody will have to ask if it's sweet or unsweetened.  Not only do I love it just because Renee gave it to me, but I love the fact that Renee thought it looked like me.  It. is. totally. me.

Renee's gift packaging didn't matter to me in the least.  This Valentine Day I can't help but think of the way God wrapped His valentine love gift to us.  He packaged the greatest gift not in ribbons and fancy paper -- he packaged it in a tiny baby.  The gift? A substitute for our sin.  The Lamb of God, the Great I Am, the Prince of Peace, the Good Shepherd, the Light of the world, Redeemer,  -- all in a plainly wrapped child. 

So today as we think of love, let us also remember the Love of God. Let our hearts sing, "Oh love of God, how rich and pure, how measureless and strong.  It shall forevermore endure,  the saints' and angels' song."

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Since this is Valentine's Day, I wanted to show you a neat valentine my husband received at work. 

Becky, their creator, is an amazing woman.  A single mom of two boys, she has worked hard to receive her education as well as give them the best care possible.  She told me the best gift she ever received was from her father.  He kept her boys every Thursday night so she could attend classes for her Associate's, Bachelor's, and  Masters Degree.  RB keeps tabs on Becky's son, Tim (now graduated and pursuing his own career); they have a neat friendship. 

Becky made these cake slices for those who work in her department at the University.  They were filled with chocolate hearts. I wish I had a picture of the whole cake but no one thought to take one.  I think these would be beautiful made in white for a bridal shower, too. 


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This a simple Valentine to a few friends Melanie and I have.  We did these together and it was such fun.  I bought the cups last year after Valentine's Day at 80% off.  We just put a hot chocolate packet and a couple pieces of chocolate (to make it extra decadent) in the mug.  Then I pulled cellophane around it and tied a bow.  We cut hearts out of scrapbook paper and Melanie printed "You warm our hearts" on them for tags. 



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27 comments:

Debra Gray-Elliott said...

A wonderful story.

Holly said...

Love the Kentucky wrap story!

Aliene said...

Pamela, Such a beautiful Kentucky wrapped gift!
What precious memories. I love the Valentine cups. But especially the Lord giving us the greatest gift wrapped in His Love. Thanks for a precious post. Blessings.

Mindy said...

"Oh love of God, how rich and pure, how measureless and strong. It shall forevermore endure, the saints' and angels' song."

What a great song for today! Thanks.

Amanda Lee said...

This was the best Valentine's post I've read this year! Thanks so much for the reminder of the sweetest Valentine.
~Amanda

Kelli said...

"Excuse the Kentucky wrap!" I love that...I am from Georgia and that sounds about right! Love the craft ideas...Happy Valentines Day!!

Bethe77 said...

I love the Kentucky wrap. But I think I love the way your grandma memories hold you to a slower pace and time and bring this all together wrapped in the best Valentine every through our Lord in the lamb of Jesus.

Esther Asbury said...

We have a sweet lady in our church that brings us "Kentucky Wrapped presents" -- i.e. grocery bag with apples, oranges, bananas, mixed nuts, or my favorite Pecan Logs! She'll be a the grocery store "think of us" -- and it always makes my day to see her pull in the drive!
Love the cake slices (I did that once before and it was so fun!) -- and the pretty teacups you did up! You have so many great ideas for gift giving -- keep them coming :)

laxsupermom said...

What a beautiful story! What fun and different ways to give a valentine. Love them! Thanks for sharing.

Oregon Gifts of Comfort and Joy said...

Hi Pamela, though I enjoyed your whole post, the first part about your Grandma really touched my heart and brought back so many memories of my Grandma J. I am happy to know that you had such a special Valentine's Day all the way around.

Thanks for stopping by to say hello, and God bless you,

Kathy

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Sr Crystal Mary Lindsey said...

Hello Pamela, Treasured memories of your special grandmother..and lovely valentine gifts from a friend.. You have such a kind enduring heart. God Bless you heaps.

Anonymous said...

What precious memories...and some of the best gifts I have ever received were 'Kentucky' wrapped.

aspiritofsimplicity said...

How sweet. It's nice to have such sentimental memories of your grandmother. I love the Kentucky wrap saying. I think I'm going to have to use that even though I am from New England.

*carrie* said...

Pamela,

These are lovely, heartfelt gifts. That chalkboard tea carafe is so special!

Thank you for your kind comment on my blog. Blessings!

Maria@BubblegumandDuctTape said...

love your blog and now I'm your newest follower. What a great story about your grandmother, it made me think of my own grandmother. There are so many things and people that mean so much to us that it only takes a second to thank God for all these blessings.

Loved the teacup gifts you made, such a cute idea. who ever was lucky to get one, I'm sure, is very happy.

Robin Baron @ Simplifying Fabulous! said...

I love chalkboard surprises in design! I have my eye on a gorgeous chalkboard statement piece for my entryway right now!

Amanda said...

That is a nice idea! New follower. Found you on the hop.
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Let'sMakeADifference said...

Great post! I love hearing stories like that. I'm blog hopping and found your blog!! Am now following. Would love for you to check out my blog and follow back. Have a great week!

Kathryn said...

Oh I just love the kentucky wrap. A whole new concept to me, but right up my alley! :)

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Yoshi said...

Lovely post. Thanks for commenting on my blog.
Have a wonderful day, Pamela.

Alicia@ eco friendly homemaking said...

This is such a great post. I think these could be used for all kinds of different occasions.Really like your blog!

Unknown said...

Love the cups!

Melissa G said...

What a cute tea server! I love the chalkboard bit!
I'm a new follower of your lovely blog. =)