Thursday, April 25, 2013

Little Inconsistencies and Book Giveaway


The steady discipline of intimate friendship with Jesus results in men becoming like Him. ~Harry Emerson Fosdick



Our sweet Emily finished her sophomore year yesterday of college (and may I brag -- with a 4.0). To mark her achievement I whipped up a pan of penuche. In my haste to have it waiting for her when she walked in the door, I grabbed the vanilla and poured some into the pan. Only it wasn't vanilla -- it was hickory flavor! Believe me, one teaspoon of hickory can make a big difference in taste.  If someone was judging my cooking by that pan of fudge my score wouldn't be very high.

As I was reflecting on my mishap, the Holy Spirit gently reminded me how one small sin can ruin my Christian testimony. An unkind word, a bad attitude, gossip -- and if one was judged my Christian life by my words and actions, I would be stand guilty of hypocrisy -- proclaiming myself to be a follower of Christ, yet not being like Him.

I have found more and more that people don't judge us on the big things. We all have that down pat. We read our Bibles, we don't steal or kill. We live pure lives and attend church regularly.  

But jealousy -- even though we try our hardest to keep it hidden, it shows as much as if our eyes really did turn green. Gossip masked as concern. Snippy responses to or about those who annoy us. Ingratitude for our blessings. Paul Gilbert wrote: 


You are writing a Gospel, 
A chapter each day,
By deeds that you do, 
By words that you say.

Men read what you write,
Whether faithless or true;
Say, what is the Gospel
According to you?


Questions I ask myself  are, "If I say this is my light shinning?" Will this attitude help others see Jesus?" "Will the joy of the Lord be evident in this action?"  

In 1893, Thomas Chisholm read Hannah Whitehall Smith's book, A Christian's Secret of a Happy Life.  Although he was only 27, this book so impacted Chisholm's life, giving him a yearning for living more like Christ, that he wrote a hymn -- one of my favorites. 



Oh! to be like Thee, blessed Redeemer,
This is my constant longing and prayer;
Gladly I’ll forfeit all of earth’s treasures,
Jesus, Thy perfect likeness to wear.


Oh! to be like Thee, full of compassion,
Loving, forgiving, tender and kind,
Helping the helpless, cheering the fainting,
Seeking the wand’ring sinner to find.

Oh! to be like Thee, lowly in spirit,
Holy and harmless, patient and brave;
Meekly enduring cruel reproaches,
Willing to suffer, others to save.

Oh! to be like Thee, while I am pleading,
Pour out Thy Spirit, fill with Thy love,
Make me a temple meet for Thy dwelling,
Fit me for life and Heaven above.

I'll be more careful about the flavoring I use in my cooking. But more importantly, I'll be careful of the little inconsistencies in my life -- those that keep me from being like Jesus.



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SuzyQ won Knit Together by Debbie Macomber 

Leave a comment if you would like to be entered to win 
Homemade with Love: 
Simple Scratch Cooking from in Jennie's Kitchen
by Jennifer Perillo.

Free Printable Tag
To gift this book I made a simple apron, tucked it in a canning jar and added a cookie scoop. You could use any utensil -- wooden spoons, a spatula, etc. 

Apron:  Four fat quarters in coordinating fabrics.  

1. For the main part of the apron measure 2" from a dinner plate, cutting one from your main fabric and one from the 2nd fabric. You may wish to add more inches, mine was for a "little cook."

2. Cut top of circle off 2". Right sides together sew, leaving top open.  Turn.  

3. Cut 3rd quarter in 3 pieces, sewing short ends together. I frenched my seams so there wouldn't be raw edges. 

4. Sew shirttail hem on one long end. Fold top and sew gathering stitches. Gather to fit and attach to apron.  

5. Cut 4th quarter in thirds and sew together.  Iron in half, wrong sides together and then turn up 1/2 in on both long ends. Tuck top of apron in band, sewing close to edge from tie end to the other.  

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22 comments:

Anonymous said...

I don't take time to read blogs often. I must say that when I read yours I gain from them. Thanks for the reminder that it is the little things that harm our witness.
Also, today I needed to be reminded to 'go make my own sunshine'...
Blessings,
Diana Metz

Unknown said...

Good reminder and sweet giveaway, Auntie. I need to live closer so I can receive sewing lessons! :)

Elizabethd said...

Oh Pamela, your words really resounded with me this week. I have come close to , not talking, but listening to some things I really didnt want to hear about someone else. Thank God for the strength He gave me.
I would love to be in your giveaway.

Jacki said...

It was wonderful to have a few moments at IHC. Take care of yourself!

RicKaren said...

Great little post. Again. I'd love to be entered in your give-away too!

Natalie said...

Your little cooking error reminded me of the Scripture that says "a little leaven, leavens the whole lump" so I can only imagine how the little teaspoon of hickory flavored the whole batch of penuche!!
My goodness how your words due indeed speak volumes. Thank you for the gentle reminder.
Lord Jesus keep us from sinning, especially with our mouths and wrong attitudes. God bless!

Esther Asbury said...

I found your list of "little sin" interesting as they are the areas I can so easily slip! I've been praying about those very things in my own life and God is changing me -- little by little!

Shannon Wallace said...

Pamela, you blog is a breath of fresh air...a breath so needed in such a hateful and sinful world. Thank you for the kind reminder. I have to agree with 100% of what you've written! Thank you for your kind, Christian heart. :)

Thistle Cove Farm said...

Most excellent point...God speaks to us in the small ways IF we're open to His whisper.
Congratulations to SuzyQ!

Denise said...

Fantastic post. Congrats to your daughter.

Making Memories 1999 said...

"Oh to be like Thee, Blessed Redeemer!" Such wonderful words! Thank you for this post!

joy said...

Thanks for the reminder.
Congratulation with your daughter:)

Brenda said...

Yes, God's ways and thoughts are so different from our ways and thoughts. The minute we are born again we are on a learning course, for with the Lord 'As a man thinks, so he is'. We have to be changed from the inside to be able to do to others as we would have them do to us.
God bless.

Rebecca said...

How proud you must be....
And what a wonderful song - another one of my favorites!

HL said...

Pamela!! Excellent words to remind us of being more like Christ! Thank you for sharing.
Loving the idea of gifting a cook-but with an apron and utensil... although, I don't sew at all - hoping my MIL understands your instructions, sorry - I'm confused by them.

Hugs, Heather

Aritha V. said...

Wise lesson :-)And proficiat to your daughter

Unknown said...

Re: Fudge - Oh no! I know just how you must have felt :) But what a great way of letting God use it to be a blessing to so many! And MANY CONGRATS to your daughter. That's so awesome. Have a blessed and beautiful week!

Ivy, Phyllis and Me! said...

Good Morning Pamela, Firstly congratulations to your daughter, you must feel very proud.
Secondly, thank you for your words. I try very hard not to have negative thoughts about people and I do try to be kind and helpful, but it is those times, when you are tired, the day has not gone as you had hoped which are the tricky times...it is so easy to be "sucked in" to someone elses opinion. I do try to treat others in the way I want to be treated. I am still learning.
If possible, I would love to be a part of your giveaway.
Have a lovely weekend.
Best Wishes
Daphne

J said...

I am very happy to hear of your daughter's academic success!
Yes, those daily faults that are so easy to commit - I keep asking Our Lord to send me a reminder because it's so easy to be tired, annoyed or impatient and lapse back to habits that I am never proud of later on.

momstheword said...

Congrats to your daughter!!! ;)

You're right, hickory smoked fudge would probably not be a great taste sensation, lol!

Beautiful post. How easily we forget that just a tiny drop of something can spoil our testimony!

We need to lean into Him daily and stick to His "recipe" for living in order to combat that!

Thanks so much for linking up to the "Making Your Home Sing Monday" linky party today! :)

Connie Nelson said...

Perfect example of sin messing it all up, great story! And congrats on that grade average ;) Thanks for linking with me.

Kristi said...

Your comment about jealousy reminded me of this quote by Jeffrey R. Holland: ". . .envy is a mistake that just keeps on giving. Obviously we suffer a little when some misfortune befalls us, but envy requires us to suffer all good fortune that befalls everyone we know! What a bright prospect that is—downing another quart of pickle juice every time anyone around you has a happy moment! To say nothing of the chagrin in the end, when we find that God really is both just and merciful, giving to all who stand with Him “all that he hath,” as the scripture says."

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